Face vs Table.... :') We are Modcraft, not: How to make a World of Warcraft Server-Craft. If u are here, u should have the basic knowlege about it.But maybe try trinity, should be the best way. If u really want it, do it yourself: http://www.trinitycore.info/How-to:WinOther ways: Novos Easy Mangos Server (if u really trust him o.O)About the other questions.. Google :]
There are so many guides how to creat a own privat-server. Even the little childs can set one up. So it will be no problem for u too, or?
So, following the steps in my link, I had post, so u will have your own trinity core.